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Should Friar Lawrence Tell Her Parents?
Friar Lawrence should tell Juliet's parents about her situation. Friar Lawrence should tell her parents because if he doesn't they will never see Juliet again. They won't see Juliet because she will take this vial, and appear dead. Everyone will think she is dead except Friar Lawrence and Romeo. This will cause her family to be very sad. Probably even more sad than usual because Tybalt has also just died. If he did tell her parents, they could talk to Juliet and work the situation out. They could maybe even cancel, or postpone the wedding. Friar Lawrence should also tell her parents that she is threatening to kill herself. Friar Lawrence should tell them this so they can see that Juliet really doesn't want to get married. This will impact

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