Re-Evaluating Your Stubornness

A team is defined by the method in which it functions, a disfunctional team can not accomplish a goal or will take more valuable time. Being able to be consisderate of others, and how they feel towards a subject is important to understand. When I am able to understand others, I can be direct, quick and productive. I try using operant conditioning in any group I partipicate, after learning of the method. It is different than using it with children, but I try to imagine how to use it with adults. When I notice someone partipicating, expressign their thoughts, I try to achwoldge their efforts. After awhile the teammate now believes the behavior is wanted and keeps on partificating. While being considerate, and encouraging I can set the tone for
Participating in the "Re-Evaluating your can'ts" inventory, I attained a better understanding of my ablilty of not being able to let things go. I do not seek out opportunities to speak to my father, due to our history. However, doing the inventory showed me the error of my ways, how I am too stubborn. Even in teams, in which there might be multiple eagles in the sky, I do not want to take a back seat. I am working on this currently, by being in a group with Kamelot and Rihannon. They both are leaders, with strong personalities, and have great ideas which I greatly appreciate. I am understanding that sometimes, letting others take the lead is not bad
I have been cursed with the gift of gab, I love to talk to others. In groups at moments, I gravitate towards been the hood ormanent according to " Group Members as Car Parts". I have confidence in my cognitive abliiltes and the interpersonal skills I possess. When a task seems it could be easily accomplished, I tend to steer the conversation offtopic while being the steering wheel. I am indeed talkative, and realize the fact that others might not find the task as easy as I do. I also converse to extraordinary amount when I do not find a task easy, in order to gather information from others. It is a dual edged sword, but I am working on making the blade