Since almost everything in today’s times can be achieved in an instant, the advancements which helped in achieving an easy life promoted a no more sweat to catch lifestyle and so people’s way in dealing with daily life and relationships also come in just a snap and some things, even the most delicate, sacred and intimate like achieving pleasure is the same as cooking instant noodles. Some of us might wonder why such things, even forbidden in our society is in reality existing and is rapidly becomes the core issue especially with teenagers. The truth is how much we deny ‘sex’, it is still one of the controversial and mostly undeniable topics and it’s all because, even teenagers are actively engaged on it. We call it as “Pre-marital sex” because it is done outside marriage and we know that this is not morally right but how come in a recent survey conducted by Jeremy and his colleges,” The last one hundred years have witnessed a revolution in sexual behaviour. In 1900, only 6% of US women would have engaged in premarital sex by the age of 19, compared to 75% today. Public acceptance of premarital sex has reacted with a lag; in 1968 only 15% of women had a permissive attitude towards the act, despite the fact that about 40% of 19 year-old females had had premarital sex. The number with a permissive attitude had jumped to 45% by 1983, a time when 73% of 19 year olds were sexually experienced”… and worldwide, about 47% are actively engaged in pre-marital sex. Is it all because of the influences that are brought about by the TV, magazines, and free porn videos on the internet or is it just the curiosity of the young people’s mind? Is the moral law will weigh heavier than the world’s modern eyes?
The modern world provides so much window’s for the introduction of sex among young people and this factors are seemed to be really that effective because pre-marital sex have greatly change the way modern people used to see it. Pressure which may come from parents, friends and all people have greatly hastened the welcoming of sex not in the legal age but even in an early age. Young people explore pre-marital sex just because they are out of their curiosities and have ignored the things their parents and mostly the church are saying about it and instead tried it themselves. The evolution of electronic media brought out the advancements in gadgets that helped in the fast availability of online resources. Television, film, radio, internet etc. are some channels that the youth are hooked on to and what they are watching and listening to has a great deal in forming their characters and even the ways how they think. Books and magazines are resources which should be used educationally but now, satanic authors are there writing their stuff about sex, erotic illusions and are giving the youth pictures to stimulate their minds to think always about sex until having read from the books in magazines, they are urged to do the thing so. We’re living in a corrupt, liberated and blind society where people can’t seem to identify the bad in ungodliness and that pre-marital sex is no longer considered as a sin. Bad parenting, ignorance, undisciplined and broken homes are the factors which started from an individual even in own homes which provoked in the engagement of unsafe and left out sex. Some quoted that, “why is it wrong when everybody’s doing it?” which states a complete irony and a deceitful reason to mask the negative side of doing sex at an early age and to showcase the favoured pleasure and the feeling of acceptance of everyone around them.
Pre-marital sex was never been approved in our modern society however; stories of adolescent fathers and mothers come out largely and are witnessed even in our community. And this situation supports the many reasons why one should not engage in sex before marriage and they add up to one thing which is what is gained by having sex before marriage is not worth what are lose by...
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