Narcissists are over-confident. They think they are special, so they can cheap during a relationship. Pat MacDonald, author of “Narcissism in the modern world”, claims that “Today is a huge emphasis self-admiration and a sense of entitlement ‘because I’m worth it’, which can involve in a failure to connect with others, echoing the plight of Narcissus”. (par.1) Over self- admiration leads narcissists to behave badly with their partners. Narcissists have contempt to their partners, but they don’t feel guilty about their behaviors. Oppositely, they believe they are worthy to do whatever they want. However, their entitlement doesn’t benefit other people who stay around them. After narcissists hurt their partners by cheating, their partners may fear to believe others people who are loyal. To dictate narcissists can be manipulator,
Darlene Lancer, the author of “Understanding the Mind of a Narcissist”, she says that “They manipulate to get their way and punish or make partners feel guilty for turning them down”.
(par.8) For narcissists, relationship partners are used to enhance their egos, as a result, they will manipulate their partners to help themselves to get in their own exception. They don’t care about the feeling of others. When narcissists’ partners don’t feed their needs, they will get