The Challenges of Gender Stereotyping and Nonconformity
John Mayer won a Grammy award for Song of the Year in 2005 for a song entitled “Daughters.” The song is essentially telling fathers to rear their daughters in a way that will be beneficial to their future relationships with men. As someone that once wanted to be a songwriter, I can appreciate this from an aesthetic perspective. It’s very organic in it’s composition; however, one of the primary messages of this song can be interpreted as girls are fragile emotionally and are unable to cope with anything but a good relationship with their fathers or it could spell doom for other men that may come into her life.
At the heart of this lies a well-known stereotype that …show more content…
In fact, the sex of a newborn sets the agenda for a whole array of developmental experiences that will influence the person throughout his or her life. The study of the development of gender is a topic that is inherently controversial and interesting to parents, students, researchers, and scholars for several reasons. First and foremost, one's sex is one of the most evident characteristics that is presented to other people. Second, whether a person is described as male or female becomes a meaningful part of one's general character; it is one of the primary descriptors people use about themselves. Labeling oneself as a "boy" or "girl" can begin as early as age eighteen months (Beale, 1994). Third, gender is an important mediator of human experiences and the way in which individuals interact with each other and the physical environment. A person’s choices of friends, toys, classes taken in grade school, and occupation all are influenced by sex (Maccoby, 1998). Finally, the study of sex, gender development, and sex differences becomes the focal point of an age-old controversy that has influenced the field of developmental psychology: the nature-nurture controversy. Within this scope, questions pertaining to the biological impact of gender roles and sex differences, as well as the effects of society, and how they interact and influence each other are asked and …show more content…
The beauty and pain of this world is that we are all different. Evolution as human can continue only if we are tolerant of those that are different. Throughout intermediary periods of a lifetime, which include graduation, first love, career management, marriage, and eventually old age, it becomes important to realize that men and women have more similarities than differences. If society allows children to explore a variety of characteristics, it will strengthen their self-belief and provide them with unlimited