Interview Paper On Sikhism

I decided to reach out to college students who identify with the Punjabi ethnicity and whose parents practice Sikhism. It was important to choose college students, as they have more freedom in decision-making as compared to living at home. Since I was noticing differences between my experiences and those I was hearing from people living in Wisconsin, I thought it would be interesting to take that into consideration. Therefore, I included both people who were raised in Wisconsin as well as those raised in California. Altogether, I received responses from two people from California (one male and one female), and three from people in Wisconsin (one male and two females). This is by no means a thorough investigation of the varying relationships
Both people from California characterized their relationship with their parents as more secretive than the people from Wisconsin, because their parents were more strict. For example, Sikhism calls for the practice of growing out one’s hair without cutting it, to practice a more overall respect and love for God’s creation. This includes shaving arm and leg hair. The female I interviewed from California has not cut her hair to this day. She did, however, shave her arm and leg hair without her parent’s knowledge. When asked why she made those decisions, she responded that her parents would only see the hair on her head. She keeps her arms and legs covered around them. On the other hand, both the females I interviewed from Wisconsin get haircuts on a regular basis, clearly visible to their families. The male from California also keeps his hair long and wears a turban on his head. He stated that the reason for keeping his hair had more to do with adhering to his parents’ rules than his own piety. This again undoubtedly contrasts with the male from Wisconsin, who cuts his hair
It’s true that my interview subjects with more strict parents were raised in a region with much more Punjabi/Sikh community. But there also seems to be a relationship between level of strictness and gender. It turns out, unsurprisingly, that Punjabi Sikh parents are more strict with their daughters than they are with their sons. All the females I spoke with seemed to hide a lot more from their parents than the males I spoke with. They also found their parents to be more strict than their male counterparts, and seemed to engage in far more activities that their parents wouldn’t allow. For example, the female from California recalls the countless times she’s lied about going to the library so she could spend time with her friends. One of the females from Wisconsin particularly pointed out this bias, pointing to the fact that she wasn’t allowed to go to her homecoming dance when she was elected queen. The very next year, however, her parents celebrate her brother’s nomination as king and let him go to the