By choosing not to be violent to our children. she trusts that we can decrease the amount of violence that takes place in our society and the number of individuals in our prisons.
In her article, “To spank or not to spank?”, Karima A. Haynes (1994) illustrate the controversial debate between parents and psychologists about whether to spank or not to spank children. While most parents argue that spanking is the only effective way to discipline; on the other hand, psychologists dispute the idea and claim that punishment only produces violence in children. According to some parents, spanking in an old tradition that has proven successful for decades. These parents interpret their spanking experience as painful but was necessary to keep them on the right path (Haynes, 1994). In fact, they claim that all children are bound to get spanked and it's in the best interest of the child to spank them sooner than later. Haynes further states that parents believe the current generation has become relaxed in using this method of discipline and it has caused an increase in societal violence and overpopulated