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Examples Of Love In The Great Gatsby
Alex Karabiberjian
Professor Lace
ENGL 113B
February 14, 2014
Love
I define love as connecting to a person in a way an individual has never felt before. The connection can be obtained by having common interests or even a mere look in each other’s eyes. I, personally, connect with women by having similarities on serious topics. These matters could be a personal opinion on relationships, values, morals, or even activities they might enjoy. I tend to have great feelings for a female when a woman and I understand each other about any type of conversation. In the novel, The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald, love was defined in a completely different way. The characters in the book showed how social class, financial stability, and a bit of obsession are huge main points of their love lives.
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It all started off when Gatsby and Daisy started to fall in love with each other. However, until Gatsby had to leave for the war, Daisy became sad and lonely without him. In addition to her mother being against their relationship, she wanted her to marry a wealthy man. One of the wealthiest men in America, Tom Buchanan, became a wonderful prospect for Daisy. During the day of her wedding, a letter was sent to Daisy from Gatsby. As she was reading the letter, she wept her eyes out. She later married Tom Buchanan, as if she didn’t have much of a choice anymore. During Gatsby’s return from the war, he was determined to fight for Daisy back in his

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