These include: “we are afraid of facing our own mortality, we are afraid that we won’t know the “right” thing to say, we may have unresolved grief over losses and deaths of our own, and we might be uncomfortable with just “being” with the client rather than “doing” things.” (330) These are just some examples of what comes to mind when having to care at the end of life. There is a process that can be followed by creating an environment that becomes comfortable for both sides of the party. “Essential qualities of being with the dying are acceptance, being calm, and open minded, listening deeply, and proactive intervention, advocacy, on behalf of clients and their families.” (330) The steps …show more content…
“I will be truthful, I will not abandon you, I will ask you what you need and what I can do for you, I will pay attention on my own self-care so I can pay full attention to you, and I will bring my best self to you, including my tears and my laughter.” (331) This is just a couple from the list of commitments that will be promised to myself, families and more importantly the patients.
The final piece for caring at the end of life is having a creative expression. Being at the end of life doesn’t mean this has to be a dull process but away that gets everyone connected to one another. This can mean by bringing in a patients favorite music and playing it for them, gathering up papers and colored pencils to color a page, or even collecting magazine to use for a collage. The mind can be open to many options that can make everyone comfortable with one another. This doesn’t have to be sad process but a process that can be remembered for later on through the