Definition of Jealousy

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Definition of Jealousy

Jealousy can be defined as the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. Jealousy often consists of a combination of emotions such as anger, sadness, and disgust. There’s no doubt that everyone experiences some level of jealousy at some time or another. For the majority of us, these feelings pass quickly and without any real harm. However, when jealousy gets out of hand it can destroy any relationships. These relationships could include friendships, and romances. There may have been a time as a child when you felt jealous because you believed your best friend wanted to spend more time with someone else. Perhaps in later life you experienced a pang of jealousy when your friend seemed to want to spend more time with her boyfriend than with you. By being jealous, you actually develop a selfish attitude, and sacrifice what may have become your lifelong friendship. Anyone who has ever been in a serious relationship has probably felt the green-eyed monster creep into his or her thoughts at one time or another. Jealousy can often make you act out against your partner even if your partner is innocent and has no idea why you are angry or giving them the cold shoulder. It also takes away from your quality time together as it would undoubtedly lead to numerous fights whereby you only focus on each others' negative qualities. Furthermore, you end up spending all of your day foolishly thinking up which ways your partner might be cheating on you. Before you know it, the greater part of your relationship will be spent on what could be happening rather than what is happening. Jealousy may only be an emotion, but this emotion can sometimes create a great chaos in relationships. Examples from both history and daily life have shown that it can destroy friendships and create rivalry. It could turn a romantic relationship into...
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