Espada writes that; “Violence is terribly seductive; all of us, especially males, are trained to gaze upon violence until it becomes beautiful” (Espada 41-42). Something beautiful is something that is aesthetically pleasing, violence something very different from what is usually considered beautiful. Violence is ugly and gory and it is pain and suffering, all things that are not aesthetically pleasing. However Espada explains how men “are trained to gaze upon violence until it becomes beautiful,” meaning that men will look at violence until it is aesthetically pleasing to them, until when they look at violence that are pleased. This is a very scary idea, the idea that something so ugly and horrible can begin to appear pleasing to people is worthy of fear. Espada continues, “Beautiful violence is not only the way to victory for armies and football teams; this becomes the solution to everyday problems as well. For many characters on the movie or television screen, problems are solved by shooting them” (42). Hurting people, acting on this violent tendency is easy, it is so much harder to be kind. So much of our society is built around violence, Espada notes “armies and football teams,” two examples of organized activities centred around violence, both essentially…