As Sennett put it, “Remembering well requires reopening wounds in a particular way, one which people cannot do by themselves.”5 This is very true. I had to reopen wounds that I know I wouldn’t have survived, both literally and figuratively, without knowing that I was not by myself. See, I was raped multiple times when I was younger. I tried my best to forget it, but I couldn’t. It is a memory “which forgetting cannot heal”6 and I needed help with getting over it. This memory, along with the pain that comes along with it, brought my family, friends, and church family closer together because they all wanted to help me deal with
As Sennett put it, “Remembering well requires reopening wounds in a particular way, one which people cannot do by themselves.”5 This is very true. I had to reopen wounds that I know I wouldn’t have survived, both literally and figuratively, without knowing that I was not by myself. See, I was raped multiple times when I was younger. I tried my best to forget it, but I couldn’t. It is a memory “which forgetting cannot heal”6 and I needed help with getting over it. This memory, along with the pain that comes along with it, brought my family, friends, and church family closer together because they all wanted to help me deal with