Adolescent Sexuality
Anna is in her adolescent stage. It is normal for her to experience anxiety about sexual issues. She will develop and grow as an individual during this stage and she will have to face sexual situations. Her current circumstances may cause her to feel an increase in her anxiety levels since she is placed between her parents and her boyfriend in this situation. This is …show more content…
She can use her critical thinking skills in this situation to reach a clearer analysis of all the facts she has in hand. She can evaluate both her mother’s and her boyfriend’s motives in this light. She can also evaluate the advantages and disadvantages of engaging in sex with her boyfriend. To truly exercise critical thinking, Anna must put her own feelings out in the forefront to use them as a basis for her evaluation. Her boyfriend should support her no matter what choice she makes in this situation. She also has to take her mother’s perspective into account. Her mother is most likely to be concerned with sexually transmitted diseases and the possibility of unwanted pregnancy. She is also aware of the age and maturity difference between Anna and her boyfriend. The dilemmas that Anna faces in this situation are common for young adolescents. They face many decisions about sexuality. There are concerns about sexually transmitted diseases and the possibility of unwanted pregnancy that are important to take into account. These are the factors that parents most often stress when encouraging their children to abstain from early sexual activity. Two individuals who actually share respect for one another and care for each other will be willing to accept the other person’s decision to abstain from sexual activity if that is their preference. It would be clear that …show more content…
Tom may have doubts about his performance. Susan may feel confident about her own. It is common in late adulthood for men to become insecure about their ability to perform sexually. This is precipitated by the physical changes they undergo at this time. These changes influence their perceptions of themselves. Some of these changes include weight shifts or gain, a loosening of the skin and wrinkles. These cause some anxiety for people when they are in sexual situations since we may feel less attractive than we were when we were younger (Nevid, Rathus, and Fichner-Rathus, 2005). Both men and women experience these changes, but in this relationship Tom is the one who has his doubts. Susan is more secure with herself and less affected by the changes she is experiencing. These are external changes. There are internal changes as well. As men age, they find it more difficult to achieve and maintain an erection. This is the result of lowered testosterone production in their bodies. It may also affect their sex drive negatively. In women, estrogen production drops. Their sexual arousal may be lowered and/or vaginal elasticity and lubrication can be lessened. These changes do not mean that older couples cannot enjoy sex fully. In Tom’s case, his issues seem to be purely