The controversial life led by
Princess Diana as well as her tragic death is a direct consequence of the pressures laid by fame and the pressures of royalty. A lot was expected of her as the Princess of Wales. Her elevation to royalty placed undue demands on a lady who could not bear being on the limelight. Her newly found matrimony did not help as her husband, Prince Charles became a philanderer. The Prince openly carried on his affair with an old flame, Camilla Parker. Any sensible woman should have deserted her husband but Diana was no ordinary woman. She was a mother to princes, one of whom was an heir to the British monarchy. Moreover, Diana had a public responsibility to the people of England to behave as the model princess and initially divorce was out of the question. Consequently she decided to put on a façade of happiness in order to fulfill her role as the peoples’ princess and proud wife. Beneath her superficial glamorous veneer, was a hurting woman who lacked an outlet to vent her gradually growing emotional turmoil.
Unfortunately Diana had to live by the chauvinistic protocol of royalty. Just like the predecessors, Charles carried on with an affair in the full glare of the public and his wife was expected to tolerate his behavior. A good example is the infamous Tudor King, Henry VIII. Henry had numerous affairs but his wives did not object as it was indeed a man’s world. Apparently such norms are in play as exhibited by Prince Charles. Her station and decorum did not allow Diana to voice her true feelings. Instead she was expected carry herself with utmost dignity and elegance as befitting a princess. Once Diana dared to confront Charles and he only managed a retort, “Well, I refuse to be the only Prince of Wales who never had a mistress!"(Curry, 2004). It was tasking for Diana to live by such traditional customs. Diana was continually subjected to shame but she always amassed enough strength to carry herself with dignity and thereby fulfilling her role as the people’s princess. Later Diana decided to do the unorthodox, when she revealed her true feelings in her memoir, Diana: Her true story. The unhappiness in her marriage is the main focus and its high magnitude is described as suicide. This action was a step in seeking closure by publicly addressing her problem. Unfortunately, this was not to be as Diana found herself immersed in the public lime light. Her troubled marriage became an instant sensation for the tabloids and it was a subject of wide public scrutiny. The revelation was a source of negative publicity as opposed to the initial motive of gaining comfort and closure.
The marriage was a source of undue pressures for a woman who suffered from loneliness as a result of an emotionally unstable childhood. Her parents divorced when she was at the tender age of six and she lacked stable upbringing as she intermittently lived with each parent. In several interviews, Diana revealed her craving for attention. She felt unloved as no one seemed to express affection. In fact she was secretly aggrieved and was always on the brink of suicide. Such a background did not prepare her well enough to handle the pressures of a troubled marriage. Overall, her entire life was a mess as both her childhood and adulthood were laden with emotional strife. Diana was never afforded a chance to address and resolve her feelings. After divorcing Charles, Diana sought solace in an affair with Hasnat Khan and later Dodi Fayed. She was continuously tormented by the media and her private life was in the public domain. Her ghastly accident led to her demise and there are rumors that the media got in the way of a timely rescue that might have saved her life. Overall, Diana’s royalty catapulted her to the limelight and this greatly contributed to her troubled life as well as tragic death.
Conspiracies Related To The Death Of Diana
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