How Do Parents Influence Child Development
Parents play a significant role in influencing their child’s development. Were you ever curious why you act the way you do? Why did you turn out the way you did? There are many factors that affect a child’s development. One being the attachment the child received during infancy, whether the child had a secure or unsecured bond with their parent. The second element is the types of parenting styles used while the child was developing. There are three components: authoritarian, permissive and authoritative. These two factors affect the child’s behavior. Parents influence their child’s development by the nature of attachment given during infancy; parenting styles used thus affecting their behavior.
Has anyone ever told you that if a parent always picks up their baby the child too much the child will be spoiled? When my son was first born, I remember my mother telling me to stop picking him up. I asked “Why?” and she replied because if you keep doing it then he will be spoiled and think that every time he cries you will come running. On the contrary, research shows that the more responsive you are to an infant’s needs and wants the child will be less spoiled as the child gets older. (Bonding with Your Baby) “Attachment is a special emotional relationship that involves an exchange of comfort, care, and pleasure”. (Cherry) “This relationship brings both parties together by ensuring that the need of the child is met. The attachment bond is the deep, lasting relationship that develops between you and your baby in the first few years of life. This bonding creates a unique relationship that shapes your baby's development. It motivates you to pay close attention to your baby’s needs—to get up in the middle of the night for feeding, to notice when a diaper needs changing, and to understand what your baby’s different cries mean”. (Parenting Advice for Developing a Secure Attachment Bond) Most people do not understand that the bond
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