Some families will only want their sons to carry the tradition and some will only choose their daughters, but typically the son will do the offering. The body of the deceased must be cremated at a temple and your offering must be made there. The person undergoing this procedure must shave off all their hair and eye brows. This is symbolic to becoming a traditional monk and a sense of simplicity. You cannot eat the entire day and the monks choose how long the offering will last. It can last from a day to a week and during that time you’re not allowed to eat. During the offering, the monks will undress you and you’re not allowed to do it yourself. They will then put on a special white robe that represents purity and rebirth. You are not allowed to touch the robe or take it off because your hands are too dirty for something so pure and monks are only allowed to do
Some families will only want their sons to carry the tradition and some will only choose their daughters, but typically the son will do the offering. The body of the deceased must be cremated at a temple and your offering must be made there. The person undergoing this procedure must shave off all their hair and eye brows. This is symbolic to becoming a traditional monk and a sense of simplicity. You cannot eat the entire day and the monks choose how long the offering will last. It can last from a day to a week and during that time you’re not allowed to eat. During the offering, the monks will undress you and you’re not allowed to do it yourself. They will then put on a special white robe that represents purity and rebirth. You are not allowed to touch the robe or take it off because your hands are too dirty for something so pure and monks are only allowed to do