During the course of the crucial conversation, the whole exercise can turn to be violent because of the high emotions that it brings. This makes the conversation very risky, especially when the people who are involved in the conversations are short tempered. In addition to this, it can also turn to be silent due to the shocking news that I might end telling them. Because my father is short tempered, I understand that he will react violently, and this would render the conversation very risky. For this reason, the trick to overcoming this is minimizing the time during which the conversation is conducted, so that by the time the tempers have grown to become violent, everybody has dispersed his own way and therefore nobody is there to fight. Similarly, during the conversation, silence would play a great role in cooling down the tempers of my dad. By remaining silent and not arguing with him, he will not have any reason to be triggered to react.
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What is on the mind and the desires of my heart are very important to me and also to my family and therefore by not telling them, it would be a slow suicide to the family and to me. Therefore, a strong connection between my parents and me is crucial for an effective conversation that would deliver the message precisely. In college, many distractions come on the way as you move from one level to another. I am hopeful that my father would understand this better because he was once there and he also experienced the same effect. For this reason, I must motivate myself and ensure that I deliver the message to them