Since the children have only seen abuse, both physical, verbal, and mental growing up, they lack adequate parenting skills. Considering these pasts, the cycle of abuse between families continues on. Children were exposed to strict discipline while in residential schools, as a result they treated their kids the same. A testimony from Lorna Rope shows how residential schools shaped bad parents, “...when he would get angry he would kind of lose control and he would hit us on the head with his knuckles, and that was the same way the Nuns did to us, to me, when I was there”. The children saw abuse, which they then as parents used on their children because that is all they have seen growing up. Many generations of aboriginal children have grown up without a loving and nurturing family. Seeing no examples of normal family life, caused them to not know how to deal with children, since they have only experienced abuse in their childhood. Brothers and sisters rarely saw one another, considering how activities were segregated. The lessons children learn as growing up deeply influence behavior and are often repeated in adulthood. Power is a crucial factor in all this, those in charge of residential schools used the power they were given as a negative advantage. It was easy for people in charge to use this power in a negative way, because in return the children could not do anything due to fear and lack of
Since the children have only seen abuse, both physical, verbal, and mental growing up, they lack adequate parenting skills. Considering these pasts, the cycle of abuse between families continues on. Children were exposed to strict discipline while in residential schools, as a result they treated their kids the same. A testimony from Lorna Rope shows how residential schools shaped bad parents, “...when he would get angry he would kind of lose control and he would hit us on the head with his knuckles, and that was the same way the Nuns did to us, to me, when I was there”. The children saw abuse, which they then as parents used on their children because that is all they have seen growing up. Many generations of aboriginal children have grown up without a loving and nurturing family. Seeing no examples of normal family life, caused them to not know how to deal with children, since they have only experienced abuse in their childhood. Brothers and sisters rarely saw one another, considering how activities were segregated. The lessons children learn as growing up deeply influence behavior and are often repeated in adulthood. Power is a crucial factor in all this, those in charge of residential schools used the power they were given as a negative advantage. It was easy for people in charge to use this power in a negative way, because in return the children could not do anything due to fear and lack of