Alexis Morin Period 4 October 23‚ 2014 Scares‚ bruises‚ and welts are just some of the marks abusive parents leave on their children. However‚ spanking and slapping on the hand when disobeying are ways to teach loving discipline. In Justice: Childhood Love Lessons bell hooks claims that "No one can rightfully claim to be loving when behaving abusively." Parents that abuse their children do not show or teach love. However‚ it is unfair to claim that a slap on the hand is considered abuse and the
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reached his/her teenage years it is too late to begin the discipline process. If parents begin early‚ I believe that the most effective ways of disciplining children are timeout‚ taking away privileges‚ talking to the child‚ and‚ as a last resort‚ and spanking. Putting a child in timeout is effective if the parent is consistent with doing so. In the article “Should You Give Your Child Timeouts‚” Phelan and Lynn state‚ “when well executed‚ timeout will help teach the rule‚ and gives kids a break away
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People only love me when I’m doing what they want.” Even if you are disciplining your child out of love and with thought of them learning from right and wrong‚ you are still going about it the wrong way. Physical punishment‚ or to be more specific‚ spanking‚ doesn’t teach obedience or how to mature in response to that misconception. It only teaches them that violence is a healthy solution‚ gives them an example on how to treat the
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The text then goes into a study done by a website called Child Trends Databank saying how parents believe that physical punishment like spanking actually helps the child learn (Sigelman and Rider 44). This section is interesting because it is not likely that most people are in favor of physically punishing a child. In truth‚ most people would be against spanking. After over looking the study done by Child Trends Databank‚ what is written in the textbook is not exactly what the article is trying
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White‚ Yvonne Spanked Children Lose Trust FAM 151‚ H002 The author clearly emphasizes spanking in child rearing is not an appropriate form of discipline. It takes away the bond and trust between parent and child. The article points out that a child’s self-worth and self-esteem will suffer if he or she is subjected to corporal punishment. A child’s behavior is affected in many ways. If a child is spanked‚ they are more likely to have unhealthy relationships when they become adults. They
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I Will Spank or Not Studies show that spanking may change brain chemistry. There is a difference between discipline and abuse and that is something that most of southern America cannot understand; they don’t know the fine line between abuse and teaching a child not to do something bad. Cris Carter has even gone do speak out against child abuse he denied the problem is of one race or culture that this is a worldwide problem “You can’t beat a kid to make them do what they want to do “. A
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trauma and end up being then they were at first. The use of corporal punishment has various factors depending on the parents’ ethnicity‚ marital status‚ geographic region‚ sex/age of the child‚ and religion. The majority of the people believe that spanking is only used for little children‚ but their wrong. “Two studies show that over half of American children ages 13 and 14 are still being spanked” (Giles-Sims‚ Straus‚ Sugarman Par. 9).As well as the age‚ more people think that boys are spanked more
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Hall‚ An Essay on Nature and Education‚ London‚ 1936‚ pp. 34-35 Straus‚ 1994; Kipnis‚ 1999‚ Kindlon and Thompson‚ 1999; Newberger‚ 1999‚ Hyman‚ 1997 MacMillan‚ H.L.‚ Boyle‚ M.H.‚ Wong‚ M.Y.‚ Fleming‚ J.E.‚(October‚ 1999) Slapping and Spanking in Childhood‚ CMAJ 16(7)‚ p. 805-809 Stein M.T.‚ Perrine‚ L. (April‚ 1998) Pediatrics 101 (4pt1) 723-728 Benatar‚ D. Corporal Punishment‚ Social theory and practice‚ 1998
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intrinsic value as opposed to fear. Moreover‚ along with the suggestion to use objects instead of the hand‚ in chapter 4‚ when responding to a parent regarding the ineffectiveness of “spankings” with her children‚ he suggests amongst other reasons “if it doesn’t hurt it wouldn’t deter the behavior‚ thus the spanking may be too gentle” (Dobson‚ 1992). This was concerning‚ as the potential for further escalation exists‚ when a pop on the bottom no longer works the force must be increased to deliver
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Child? In a world where children are raised in a non-traditional fashion‚ physical discipline is a mere distant memory. Corporal punishment has been one of the oldest methods of disciplining children‚ through the infliction of spanking‚ or smacking – an attempt to discourage a child from acting a certain way. Children grow and learn from their mistakes‚ but how do they know right from wrong? Proverbs 13:24 says “He who spares the rod‚ hates his son‚ but he who loves him is careful
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