The Argument Culture In Deborah Tannen’s article “The Argument Culture‚” she states that argument and debate “urge us to approach the world‚ and the people in it‚ in an adversarial frame of mine.” She calls this new norm of society “The argument culture”. The argument culture “rests on the assumption that opposition is the best way to get anything done”. Tannen uses the metaphor of an arguing spouse to convey the idea that society needs act more like a married couple to find a more constructive
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A Move towards Better Communication Deborah Tannen graduated from The University of California‚ Berkely‚ M.A. in 1979 with her PHD in Linguistics. She is a professor of linguistics at Georgetown University. Tannen has written many books where she applies her theory of Linguistics to everyday situations. Some of her books are: That’s Not What I Meant!: How Conversational Style Makes or Breaks Relationship (1986)‚ Talking from 9 to 5: How Women’s and Men’s Conversational
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How Male and Female Students Use Language Differently by Deborah Tannen In Deborah Tannen’s essay How male and female students use language differently explained’ she describes the difference in the way men and women communicate in class. Ms. Tannen has years of experience in the classroom‚ and has inked several books on language. Deborah Tannen can be considered and specialist on this subject. In this essay she tries to convey the message to her readers that women and men communicate in differently
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In Deborah Tannen’s essay “I’ll Explain It to You: Lecturing and Listening”‚ she asserts the belief that even though men and women speak the same structural language‚ their motivations for speech and conversational patterns are very different. In the earlier years of development‚ Tannen observes that girls use speech to find confirmation and establish intimacy‚ whereas boys use speech to assert their independence and attain social status. After transitioning to adulthood‚ women find themselves bored
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-98 2-15-11 In reading Deborah Tannen’s essay “You Just Don’t Understand: Women and Men in Conversation‚” I was found to believe that the main idea of this essay was the language of everyday conversation. The subject of Deborah Tannen’s essay would be in my opinion the difference in which males and females use communication skills. When it comes to men‚ they seem to talk more if they were sitting next to a female. Also a boys way of communicating with other boys‚ was not by talking‚ but by
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In “How Male and Female Students Use Language Differently” by Deborah Tannen illustrates the day to day gender differences in institutions. Tannen is an author and professor that researched the difference in genders in school. Tannen successfully enlightens her colleagues about men and women differences in education institutions by‚ establishing her credibility through research‚ observations and using her logic. Tannen did research and wrote a book comparing men and women in education institutions
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“The Argument Culture” by Deborah Tannen‚ she describes our adversarial society in debates and dialogues. Tannen discusses our culture’s style of seeing issues‚ questions‚ and conflicts as having two sides that battle each other for one goal. She states that using war metaphors: war on drugs or fight against AIDS‚ makes every conflict a battle in the minds of outsiders. The result‚ she says‚ is that the quality of information received is compromised. According to Tannen‚ language “invisibly molds
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John. "Men are from Mars‚ Women are from Venus." Writing the World. Ed. Marilyn Moller. Boston: Bedford‚ 2000. 16-25. Pollit‚ Katha. "Are Women Morally Superior to Men?" Writing the World. Ed. Marilyn Moller. Boston: Bedford‚ 2000. 62-67. Tannen‚ Deborah. "Put Down that Paper and Talk to me!" Writing the World. Ed. Marilyn Moller. Boston: Bedford‚ 2000. 8-16. Troemel-Ploetz‚ Santa. "Selling the Apolitical." Writing the World. Ed. Marilyn Moller. Boston: Bedford‚ 2000. 67-73.
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After reading and analyzing both Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman and You Just Don’t Understand‚ by Deborah Tannen‚ I have come to conclude that I prefer Tannen’s book over Postman’s. There are a variety of reasons for this particular choice. For one‚ Tannen’s novel offered a very relatable topic that applies to my everyday life. On the other hand‚ Postman’s argument was a bit too radical for my taste. Also‚ Tannen’s novel was very focused and clear. On the contrary‚ Postman had a tendency
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distinguish men and women. Rather anything from clothing or hairstyles to make-up or accessories can indicate specific messages about an individual. According to Deborah Tannen‚ women are more frequently considered marked beings in our society while men have fewer clothing or style options and are therefore free to remain unmarked. Although Tannen argues that it is possible for men to remain purely "unmarked" her assertions do not hold up well in a changing world. Because the term "marked" is a social
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