English 10 Pre-AP/01
Mr. Brian L. Blank
April 11, 2013
Parenting and its Affects
1No matter how hard a mother may try, she will always regret how she raises her children and contemplate for the rest of her life if she could have done anything to raise her children better. 2In Tillie Olsen’s short story “I Stand Here Ironing,” Olsen addresses the psychological development of the 3gradual alienation between mother and daughter from infancy to adulthood, where the mother uses an unconventional way of parenting her daughter and all her daughter craves is her mother’s love. Eventually, the daughter grows up not knowing love herself. 4,5Because the mother’s parenting is not conventional, it affects her child’s psychological development, 6from her child’s infancy stage to her childhood stage and, finally, her adulthood stage; however, in the end, the mother and daughter eventually grow distant because the daughter grows up not having the true love of a mother that a child deserves. 7In society, humans are brainwashed to believe that all women who turn into mother’s love and nurture their children like they should; however, sometimes a mother just does not take her job seriously and it psychologically scars their children leaving the children to doubt themselves and their existence. Eventually, children grow up and grow distant from their parents.
Although 2parenting has its tolls on 2children’s 2development and 2psyche, especially if a parent has no clue how to be a parent, the main character, in “I Stand Here Ironing,” has flashbacks of the past where she is raising her daughter and many of her decisions, along the way, go awry; however, later on in her life, she realizes all the decisions she makes are wrong and wishes terribly that she can go back and choose wiser when it comes to raising her daughter. The mother does not love her “daughter” when she gives “birth” to her. In a reminiscing tone, the mother points out that her daughter “[is] a...
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