Women In Abusive Relationships

With the rate at which Domestic violence is increasing, i was led (by the spirit of course) to write this on the blog.

apparently, domestic violence is the trend now for some men who can only show their power when it comes to women,these people actually don't utter a word when their guys annoy them so since you cannot talk when your guys annoy you, why the hell do you take it out onyour woman??

Thats not even the point my question is why do these women stay in abusive relationships?

Now I really tried to understand these people who stay back in abusive relationships because its so difficult not being judgemental(yass! I said It,I'm Human). judging from stories on the internet and twitter statistics, I found out the following

I. FINANCE: these people in abusive relationships are financially dependent on the abuser, they feel if they leave,they will be bankrupt,but I always look at
LIVING UP TO SOCIETY STANDARDS: "I dont want to join the league of single mothers, our mothers didnt bring us up that way, It's my job as the woman to keep my home together'' when I hear women make this comment when asked I ask myself "Is it when this one dies that she will know its time for her to leave"? but then, the worst is girls who are still dating abusive boys(ahn ahn aunty are you not seeing all these on the social media about domstic violence?) haba!those ones are the worst like there's a boy out there tripping willing to treat you like a queen and you are there loving a woman beater (yimu) okay now!

III.DICK GAME TOO GOOD: after the apology, makeup sex is the next abi?this is the craziest part, these boys are the best in this part, haa!if you hear a girl that has been abused talk about the guys D game, a girl will start dripping(mogbe)...ahn ahn, the styles are too good. these guys know kama sutra at the tip of their fingers. The makeup sex is too good and why won't these girls stay back? besides that's what other girls are missing(Iffa slap you ehn,is sex