Why Arguing Is Effective

Whoa, wait! Arguing is effective? Life's choices tend to be complicated sometimes. Everyone is entitled to their own personal opinions; however, they do not always share a common perspective. As a result, arguing has become a common act to resolving problems over the years, and no one knows arguing better than today's younger generations. The problem with most people is that they refuse to acknowledge when arguing is appropriate and in which situations it is most effective. That is how people find themselves in trouble or in a sketchy predicament. Despite what most think, arguing is effective, given the right circumstances. Being accused of something is a consequence no one wants to experience, especially if the accusation is inaccurate. Arguing for someone's innocence is effective and positive. No one should have to pay for someone else's dishonesty or something he or she did not do. For instance, John has been accused of murder, when in reality,
Technically, that person might not be right, but people are often stubborn when it comes to changing their minds. This is where arguing is considered useful. It opens up alternative points of views, or perspectives. It can also give someone insight on the opposing argument, something that he or she might not have known prior. When trying to prove a point, arguing, in the most respectful manner, is effective. The objective is to prove that a specific topic or opinion is right (or superior to another opinion). The downside to this is that arguing can and usually does cause high tensions among people. Dr. Gail Saltz says that the number one cause of arguments in relationships is money or spending issues (Thomas). Sometimes, the argument can get violent, as seen in situations when someone becomes abusive. While domestic violence is legally and morally wrong, all relationships should experience a disagreement, because ultimately, it just makes them