To begin with a lot depends on your definition of “spy”. Weather you think spying on your kids is acceptable in today’s digital age or a breach of trust really depends on how you define “spying” in the first place (line 3, 4). Take a moment and define spy in your own words. In my opinion spying is a form of disrespect! Being because you lack the trust of someone.
Now when if ever is it ok for you to spy on your boy or girl? Were I to become suspicious about his actions or fearful of his safety,