August 28, 2014
White Lie vs. Actual Lie
Telling a white lie is part of our daily lives, relationships and jobs. Once one tells another a little white lie, it piles on and on until they become a compulsive liar. Everyone thinks that using a little lie will be beneficial to the person that is seeking the truth and hear what they want. Everyone has their own opinion when it comes to lies, but they don’t really know for sure. What is a white lie versus an actual lie? A white lie is a harmless lie that is not intended to hurt. A lie is a false statement that is told to not give any form of the truth. Husbands, wives, friends, and even children tell lies. Angela Evans from Brock University did a study where kids start telling lies at the age of three and a half. Husbands and wives, even boyfriends and girlfriends tell each other lies just to make the relationship easier. People tell white lies to protect loved ones feelings, to feel good about themselves, or because they think it’s polite. One must look at how it must feel for the person who is telling the lie. They aren’t trying to hurt the person’s views on how they see things, but at the same time they want them to get the idea of that they are trying to be harsh in a kind way. A relationship is not a real relationship if it’s mostly based on lies. However, lying isn’t always bad. If somehow it had some of the truth in it then it’s still good. Lying is acceptable if it can avoid conflicts and solves the problem. Boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, and wives will do anything to keep the relationship strong between each other. Saying the truth can hurt. It hurts the person you love and care about because although they want to hear what’s going on, they really don’t. They aren’t trying to hurt their feelings because that won’t do them any good. If that means telling them a white lie then so be it. They will tell them what they need to hear in order not to get the...
Cited: News, CBC. "Toddlers Start Lying as Early as Age 2 - Technology & Science - CBC News." CBCnews. CBC/Radio Canada, 4 Feb. 2013. Web. 6 Sept. 2014.
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