“Where the Hell’s My Dad?”
Today we are seeing more and more of our youth engaging in sexual relationships. In these relationships, the use of a condom is rarely used if even discussed. Many teens are involved because they are looking for popularity or to feel wanted by another person. These types of relationships lead to pregnancy, which leads into my topic of fatherless households. The men are not ready to be settled down or to be a father, and they leave the mother to raise the child alone. With the growing trend of single mothers in the United States, the effects of not having a father can cause major emotional, behavior, and social problems for the child.
It is common to believe that growing up in a fatherless house does have negative effects on children; however the opposing view of this is that it does not have any effects at all. “There are very few people saying that they doubt the fundamental importance of mothers, yet there are those that believe that the importance of a father figure is diminishing”(Tischler, 2001). There are those that say that a father’s role can be replaced by another family member like an uncle or grandfather. My view on this topic is that a father, not a replacement, is needed based on my own personal experience. I also know a large number of people who grew up with me that also did not have fathers around and many of them are in jail or have died. I find it necessary that there must be some involvement of a father to help raise the child. When I was younger, I had no father around to teach me how to be a man. My mother tried the best she could to wear both hats, but that was one thing that she could not do. There is a connection that will link you forever to fathers and without one you always feel lost. According to the United States Census Bureau, “24 million children in America live in biological father-absent homes” (National Fatherhood...
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