The human need to obtain a meaningful relationship becomes so powerful that individuals are often forced to overcome obstacles in the way of developing these relationships.
Patrick works alongside immigrants that do not speak the same language that he does. He is constantly surrounded by people; however there is a separation between Patrick and the Macedonians. This disconnect is due to the lack of communication and understanding between them. The absence of companionship creates feelings of isolation and belittlement in Patrick. Patrick felt as though “he had reduced himself to almost nothing”. This feeling came from not being able to have meaningful relationships with the people around him. When Patrick is constantly alone and without anyone to connect with, it becomes very easy for him to start feeling less than, inferior. He feels as though he has reduced himself to practically nothing, because he is not able to express himself. The lack of expression means that the people around him are not truly able to know him. This emotion makes Patrick feel hollow. Nevertheless, Patrick does not feel this way for much longer because he and the Macedonians are able to find a point of interest, his suit, “and suddenly Patrick, surrounded by friendship, concern, was smiling, …show more content…
A few years ago, my parents told me that we were going to be expecting some guests. I was told that my relatives were coming to visit. Our guests were a middle aged married couple; they were supposedly related to my mother in a way I don't quite understand. The couple was not from here, they were visiting from Lebanon, the country my parents are from. I was born here and I have never been to Lebanon. This distance has resulted in my poor Arabic language skills. I am able to speak at a basic, conversational level but asking elaborate questions and being able to fully decipher long stories is a challenge for me. My relatives did not know much English either. The lack of a shared language resulted in a disconnect between myself and my relatives. They were staying for a week and after meeting them I realized that I wanted to know them better, their different lifestyles and experiences intrigued me and I deeply wanted to be able to talk to them. I wanted to hear more about the other relatives that I have but have never met and about the country that I originate from. The language barrier I was faced with was eventually overcome. My parents played a role in helping me overcome this adversity. They were able to help me learn more and expand my vocabulary. They also helped me by translating what I was trying to ask my relatives. With this experience I was able to build a new