Some of them are: telling a trusted person, make a joke and laugh at yourself, walk away, surround yourself with supportive friends, or avoid places where you was bullied. Remember if you stick to all of these alternatives you resist the possibility of someone bullying you. Adults should help children understand about bullying by keeping the lines of communication open and encourages children that even though someone is different or act differently they deserve the right to be treated with kindness and respect. It is the responsibility of the family, school, and the community to develop a bullying prevention training to provide individuals with research-based tools and resources to ongoing effective bullying programs for our…
According to Siebecker & Swearer, the three types of bullying behavior that is generally observed by researchers and psychologists are 1) behavior that is intended to cause harm, 2) the behavior continues over a period of time, and 3) there is an imbalance of power (2011). Bullies can exclude others, make fun of, ignore, lie about, and even steal from and assault their targets. These behaviors can be physical or verbal and carry equally negative consequences. Bullying can be direct or indirect. It is important as a counselor and a service to our students, to be aware of the prevalence of this toxic behavior and…
If you see any bullying, stop it right away, even if your child is the one doing the bullying. Encourage your child to help others who need it. Don't bully your children or bully others in front of them, kids who are bullied at home react by bullying other kids. If your children see you hit, ridicule, or gossip about someone else, they are also more likely to do so themselves. Support bully prevention programs in your child's school.…
In conclusion, please don't raise your child to be a bully. Let them know to embrace each other's differences. Allow them to hear different point of views from different kinds of people, but always let them know that racism and bullying of any sort is definitely unacceptable. The words you use toward someone can shape them into who they are. For example with me, I learned that I need to clean up and resturants so I won't be called names which the cleaning aspect isn't bad at all. Still you can grow tired of always being judged and hurt by others over a…
First, bullies are not just in American Schools, they are all over the world in each and every different school. It doesn’t matter what ethnicity one is bullying takes place based on many different levels. According to Kasetchai Laeheem students who are bullied by other students are usually injured, suffered and don’t want to go to school. These kids feel in some way that life is not worth it and this is where we as parents, teachers, counselors and peers need to step in and put a stop to bullying.…
In today's society it is hard for schools and adults to properly identify and deal with bullying. It is hard to ignore the fact that most bullying goes unnoticed or unreported in schools, a place where adults are constantly present. With the exposure bullying has gotten in recent years people would think that schools have sophisticated methods of dealing with bullying, however this is not the case in most schools. Throughout many schools it can be seen that not enough is done to resolve the bullying and harassment happening on a day to day bases. Many schools work very hard in hopes that one day bullying will end, but it is hard for schools to know what to classify as bullying or harassment, since most of it can start outside of school grounds…
"Please stop hitting me! You're hurting me!" Children are bullied because they are different in some way. According to www.verywell.com, students may be bullied because of their religion, race, or a disabilities. Students might become a bully because of something that is happening at their home like abuse, they're are being bullied themselves, or they have not learned the common rules of respect. Bullies are worse than bystanders because they lose trust in others, they will feel abundant amount of guilt, they are the reason why the victim kills themselves, and they will have to suffer a big consequence. Being a bully is not the answer…
Bullying has become an epidemic, and it needs to come to an end. If people will stand up for each other and protect each other, I believe bullying would cease to be effective. It preys on those who do not have the confidence to defend themselves. Often times, the bully hurts others as a way of protecting himself. He believes that if he attacks others, then they will not know he himself is hurting, or has been hurt in the past. It becomes a coping mechanism for him. The biggest thing to keep in mind is that bullying should not be responded to with more violence. They need to be shown love, but firm love. A love that says, “I love you enough to not let you continue down this path. Let me show you another way.” Then you are not only l protecting those that the bully hurts, but also you are protecting the bully himself in the long run.…
Bullying is a serious matter and should be strongly dealt with. Even if the child has not yet faced any such situation it is important to explain him such prevalent behaviors in the society and ways to tackle it. If left unattended, this childhood problem can have serious effects on the personality of the child throughout his life. This explains the situation and measures should be taken to prevent this prior to it becoming a serious…
Right now, 160,000 kids are either being bullied at school or are at home because they can’t face going to school! This is a frightening statistic. No child should be scared to go to school. The sad thing is that every 1 in 7 students in each grade are either a bully or has been a victim of bullying. No one has the right to think they anyone is lesser than them. No one has the right to put anyone down. The only way we can deal with bullies is to stand up to them, show them that the way they are treating others is unacceptable, and needs to be changed. Bullies expect that people treat them with respect, but they do not show that to anyone! Bullying is taking over schools, and it needs to be controlled.…
One of the first things you can do is set up a disciplinary chart where you can track people who get in trouble for bullying other students. This system could be used to figure out what kids are repeat offenders and discipline them greatly. By doing this, the bully will want to stop more so he doesn’t get in as much trouble. Also, teachers could be notified of each students bullying sheet so if they see something starting, but it doesn’t seem that bad, they can take action right away. It is sort of like nipping it in the bud.…
There have been many efforts to help stop bullying. There are several websites to help children and teenagers become more aware of bullying and how to report it if they are being bullied or if someone else is being bullied. Just a few of the websites are http://americanspcc.org/, http://www.stopbullying.gov/, and http://stompoutbullying.com. There also several organizations to help with this epidemic. The National Center for Bullying Prevention and The Trevor Project are just a couple of the organizations that are dedicated to stopping…
There are many ways you could help at your school in preventing bullying. You could stand up for someone, and help them before it's too late. You could talk to an adult such as a teacher or a parent/ guardian, for advice or for further help or even just getting another student to help. Also there are many helplines available for those who are willing to call up such as the Kids Helpline on 1800 55 1800. They are a 24 hour helpline that is available 7 days a week and they talk to over 6,000 kids a week. So they will always be available to help.…
According to Banks, “…fifteen percent of students are either bullied regularly or initiators of bullying behavior.” The students that bullying are the children that have a need to feel powerful and in control. Most children that bullies are the children that were physically punished and because of the parents actions, the child now believes that striking back physically is the only way to handle their problems.…
Do you think that a bully is going to take someone 1 or 2 years younger than him/her seriously when they tell the bully to stop bullying? I will bet you that more than 99.999% of the time the answer will be no. Because why should the bully take someone his or her age or a bit younger seriously? However when there are teachers involved that is a whole other story. When there is a higher authority figure involved the bully will definitely be more intimidated. Let’s say the deputy principal or principal gets involved, they have the power and authority to suspend, or in some cases even expel, the bully. THIS is why it is very important that teachers are always aware of the school environment and that no one is getting bullied. Sometimes children and teenagers feel powerless against bullies, I can say from experience that I agree with that statement. I felt extremely powerless against a bully that was shorter and the same age as me.Teachers can use their people skills to talk to learners because that’s what they do every day. So it is not a difficulty for teachers to talk to their learners. The teachers have a higher authority over the learners. They also know a lot of their learners quite well, as they watch them a lot and have an idea of what they are like and how they behave outside of the classroom.…