to small extent people are objective

Topic: ‘By and large, people are objective in understanding themselves.’ Do you agree and why? Understanding ourselves is of paramount important issue in our life. It is not only help us to recognize our potential and develop our talent, but also brings us to know ‘who am I’ to stand firm in this society. In fact, although we have finished a lot of self-knowing tests, it rarely helps us to understanding ourselves objectively. In his essay, i will focus on the motive of people and divide into eight parts to analyze whether people objective or not. The attractiveness aspect is the first part we need to focus on. We can see that people are not objective in understanding themselves. Evaluation of people themselves’ attractiveness being increasing though less strongly over time, however, evaluation of other people increase positive over time and decrease afterward(Cheuk, 2013). In fact, everyone will have decrepitude when the times pass which without exception and everyone process in the similar decrepitude’s rate despite one’s appearance have been cautiously cared. People view the drop rate of appearance of themselves much slower than others with no doubt a subjective projection to understand themselves.

The second part is self-presentation aspect; people are not objective in understanding themselves. Self-presentation is the behavior that people make themselves appear impressive and means that there is no one true self ( Schlenker & Bonomer, 1971). People only show position to adapt a particular audience a positive image such as responsible, attractive and many other positive traits. (Harvey, Schwieger, Olson, 1982). For example, students would not likely to answer the question in lesson as they fear to build up a negative image when they are giving a wrong answer. Objective people would not only show the positive thing they have, but also the negative that means people need to comprehend both their advantages and disadvantages. If people keep processing