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To Kill A Mockingbird: The Four Styles Of Parenting
After reading Kendra Cherry’s article, Parenting Styles: The Four Styles of Parenting, one can draw the conclusion that Atticus Finch from Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird should be categorized as an authoritative parent. In the article, one can see that the author defines an authoritative parent as someone who “establishes rules and guidelines that the child is expected to follow” but, when a rule is broken the parent is “nurturing and forgiving, rather than punishing”(¶5). This is tantamount to the behavior of Atticus in the novel by Harper Lee. His authoritative behavior is clearly presented in the novel when Atticus is told that Jem, Scout and Dill were playing poker with matches. Scout reveals that Atticus had already established a rule

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