Running Head: Theory Critique Cloud and Townsend
Theory Critique: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend: Boundaries in Marriage
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In the book Boundaries in Marriage, Cloud and Townsend introduced a concept that will assist in maintaining a healthy marital relationship. The paper will examine the approach that Cloud and Townsend have taken, where they incorporate their theoretical perspective to a theological perspective so that the counseling session can be more effective on the success of marriage. Cloud and Townsend indicate that all relationships must have clear boundaries set from each individual. The authors express that a marriage cannot properly flourish unless the boundaries are set. The boundaries can provide a guideline for the relationship and prevent a lot of confusion. The personal boundaries are usually formed based upon the values and beliefs of the individual. The authors make sure to indicate that marriage is “first and foremost about love” (Cloud &Townsend, p. 9), however that loving relationship could easily be tarnished without a complete understanding of boundaries. The presence of clear boundaries allows two vital elements in the marriage, which are freedom and responsibility. The authors believe that those two elements presence in the marriage, it voids the possibility of fear, resentment and control over the other can cause the relationship to fail.
Cloud and Townsend compare a marital relationship with a relationship with God, because it is also important to have clear boundaries with God and having a positive foundation to ensure a successful marriage. It is also important to include God in the marriage because, without God nothing can survive. “ When we live free, take responsibility for our freedom, and love God and each other than life, including marriage, can be an Eden experience” ( Cloud & Townsend p.25)
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Cloud, H., & Townsend, J. (1999).Boundaries in marriage. Grand Rapids: Zondervan.
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