This paper is a summary of the book "The Gift of Sex" along with my responses for each section in the book. Along with the physical aspect of sex, there is a spiritual aspect of sex, which is mostly neglected by today's culture and even by Christians. The authors believe that sex is also a spiritual and emotional act, involving the total person, the body, soul and spirit. There is a connection with the sexual relationship of a husband and his wife, and the intimate relationship of God and man. Revelation of this reality would bring freedom and fulfillment in God and in marriage. There are many aspects to a sexual relationship between a husband and wife, apart from gaining sexual release. Although there may be many different hindrances that can befall any married couple, such as erectile dysfunction and vaginitis, there is hope and help for everyone. With the right attitude towards each other and the sexual relationship, couples can find help and overcome any sexual dissatisfaction.…
The people of Oceania live in a cold, dark world full of dread and constraints. In such conditions, life can be but unfulfilling at best. The people of Oceania have no other goals in life than to serve The Party. They have no dream since that is not acceptable behaviour in the eyes of The Party; they spend their entire lives doing what the The Party tells them to, no more, no less. Relationships are strictly regulated in Oceania. Couples are chosen by government according to their compatibility, and intimacy is not allowed even during sexual intercourse. “The Party was trying to kill the sex instinct, or, if it could not be killed, then to distort it and dirty it,” (1.6.9) so that the act of having sex will no longer evoke feelings of euphoria in the people, and make it seem dull and mundane, ensuring the people’s disinterest at the task. The lack of luxury, entertainment and variety makes life boring and predictable, which in turn will attribute to misery.…
Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction written by Dr. Mark Laaser (2004) analyses sexual addiction from a Christian world view. Dr. Laaser (2004) is a recovering sex addict with personal experience of the pain and shame of sexual addiction. Sexual addiction is described as a sickness involving any type of uncontrollable sexual activity (Laaser, 2004). Unlike other diseases, Christian sex addicts have the added complication of not seeking help because they feel they will be hated, shunned, laughed at, or punished if anyone knew their sin (Laaser, 2004): however, as Laaser (2004, p. 224) stated in his book “while sexual sin is devastating, there is hope for healing”.…
References: Rathus, S.A., Nevid, J.S., and Fichner-Rathus, L. (2005). Human sexuality in a world of…
I personally do not agree with neither Clifford nor James completely. I believe that Clifford presents a better argument by saying that we need sufficient evidence for a belief, but I do not completely agree with this statement. There are many circumstances where the general population and myself are satisfied with believing without any sufficient evidence. One example of this is Santa Claus. For millions of children, including myself, who grew up in Christian homes, the myth of Santa Claus is one that requires no proof. Every child stays up on Christmas Eve hoping to hear reindeer on the roof in anticipation of Santa bringing Christmas presents. When children reach a certain age, usually in middle school, they begin hearing the rumors from…
There are many misconceptions when we talk about sex especially to old age generation. During the first day of class in HS 107, we talked about myths on aging. According to many people, they believed that “Majority of old people have no interest in, nor capacity for, sexual relations” (Facts on Aging Quiz). In our society, many people believe that older adults do not have sex when they reach the certain old age. Many argue that as you grow older your body becomes frail, thus, decreasing and diminishing sexual desire. Others believe that the sex “belong to the younger generations” (Schwartz, 2012). Since older adults are more prone to chronic disease, this means that we assume that they do not have a desire on having sexual intercourse.…
Prompt: “We all use victim language at some point in our lives. Using what we discussed in class about victim vs. creator language, write a two-paragraph journal entry showing how you can use creator language in your life. In what ways do you use victim language? How can you turn it around with creator language. Use the link below to write or upload your response.”…
This critical review will attempt to summarize the book “Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction” written by, Dr. Mark R. Laaser. Highlighting all the central themes and giving an in-depth analysis of Dr. Laaser’s work on the subject of sexual addiction. It will give his perspective and evidence to support it from the book and other sources. In this review you will find that Dr. Laaser has added valuable insight to the subject on a personal level. It will also show how Dr. Laaser’s faith comes into play, being that the book is written from a Christian point of view using a Biblical worldview. This review will show that the book can and should be used by lay and professionals alike when dealing with those who suffer from the pain and sin of sexual addiction.…
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Sexuality is a gift from God, in fact he values men’s and women’s sexuality and sexual desires. However the moral values of society has made sex form of personal gratification and fulfillment, instead of a mutual expression of emotional and physical bonding between and man and a women. One author Wrote “…in the truest sense , the fall into sin was a fall out of relationship.. out of our secure place and belonging with God into self absorbed isolation and inner emptiness (Willson, 1998 ) Both men and women are ill learned concerning human sexuality, The biblical expression of sexuality is to be views as a prized gift. The gift of sex has been lost in many marriages because of the lack to education and proper biblical teaching on the subject of sexuality. The author of Intended for pleasure wrote, “God so designed is that we cannot truly be satisfied with mere physical and physiological relief in sex, The world , which often tries to view love and sex in marriage as two separate entities, has missed the Point. In God’s…
With love absent the heart feels empty and shattered.. The feeling of love can be considered the strongest emotion a human can experience. Affection builds trust, relationships, and families. If relationships are not being built and people are not bonding, then they cannot unite and form a revolution against the Party. In most cases, love eventually leads to sex. Sex by far is the most intense pleasure stimulant for humans to experience. Since this sensation is so great the party does whatever it can to prevent sex. The party has indoctrinated the youth to believe sex is a dirty deed. To encourage young people to eschew from sexual activity the Junior Anti Sex League was established. Julia herself joined as a member, but she loved rebelling and having sex. As a result of love being forbidden, the only way two people can marry is if they are marrying to produce children for the Party. The party has such a close grip on the populations libido that the only time sex would be allowed is to reproduce, not for pleasure! For example, Winston’s first wife hated making love to him. She referred to the action as ‘doing their deed to the party”. Their sex life was such a drag even Winston despised intercourse. Sex should express how much you love someone and make you feel wonderful. The government of Oceania has tried so hard to vaporize this feeling by searching for ways to make men and women feel no sensation…
Romantic love is nature’s way of selected breeding.. It makes you think, that you need the person to make you happy when all it is the baby’s will to be born. Thus, when two people are in love, they think they want sex, because they connect sex to love, but it is actually the baby that makes us think so. Thus, sex is for procreation but we think we want it because it makes us happy.…
I think that our society should keep stirrings because we need to have feelings.It is also a gift from God. If we didn’t have it we wouldn’t have crushes.If we never had crushes then we would never have stirrings, or we would never get married, and we could never have sex.If we never had that it would be bad and we couldn't have or own kids.If we couldn’t have our own kids then we wouldn't value them or love them as much as we would if they were our own biological kid.We would also have to have someone else’s kid not our own.So in my opinion I think that we should have stirrings…
The precision of language is one of the most influential themes contributing to the irony of the utopian lifestyle depicted in Lois Lowry’s brilliant dystopian novel, The Giver. From the very first line to the last powerful moments of the book, it is made apparent how seriously speech is taken in Jonas’s community. Jonas, before meeting the Giver, endlessly toils over what specific words could be used to describe his emotions by comparing their meanings, such as “fright” and “apprehension.” However, throughout the novel, Jonas begins to realize what real emotions are, and that not everything can be explained by words lacking in depth and meaning. Lowry develops the theme of the precision of language in The Giver in unison with the development of Jonas’s understanding of real emotions, meaningful language, and…