The Effects of Compliments

The Effects of Compliments Compliment is a kind of praise and encouragement. It can give you confidence, courage and help you go forward. True compliments which are good and positive can affect you a lot, even false compliments also have positive effects more or less. Like the American famous writer Mark Twain once said,“I can live for two months on a good compliment”. Yes, they have magical power. When I first came to Fudan University, I was excited. But as time went by, I became nervous and pressed. Because my classmates were all very excellence, especially their English and computer skill were much more better than me, I had fallen behind them far away, I lost my confidence totally. Those days were terrible, I always couldn’t sleep well at night. But in my heart, I also wanted to speak English fluently and calculate and simulate by computer expertly, I never give up myself, and I couldn’t, I still struggled. Fortunately, my supervisor found my problem, and we had a long talk, he said,“you must believe yourself, you are very excellent. You can be admitted to Fudan University, which prove that you are very good too. You have the ability to compete with your classmates, just trust yourself and work hard, you will succeed. I trust you.”After that talk, I calmed down, worked hard and was confident. I found myself back soon. Thanks for my supervisor’s encouragement, which indeed helped me a lot. Actually, compliment is very easy sometimes. Like a kind word, a sweet smile, or a courage expression in your eyes, and these may change one person’s whole life. Why not do it, so please don’t save your