Not all divorce is bad. Sometimes the parents’ divorce because it is what would be best for everyone else. So, before Eberstadt points the finger at all the divorced families, she needs to look at all of the sides. For instance, divorce can be helpful in some ways. If the relationship of the parents is getting to the point of abuse, it is obviously a good point to end the relationship. It would not only be a good idea for the spouses, it would also be a better situation for the children as well. You do not need to have children witnessing their parents getting hurt in any way. The argument being made is that divorce affects kids, but it can be beneficial in many ways. This is what Eberstadt fails to look at, which is a big factor when dealing with divorce. Not only does Eberstadt fail to look at this aspect, most people in general make the same assumptions. When one hears about someone getting divorced, they automatically blame the parents. The parents are not always the ones at fault. Believe it or not, there are some circumstances where it is anybody’s fault but the parents. So, Eberstadt is completely wrong in her assumption that divorce is always the parents fault and will always result in bad children that want nothing more than to rebel towards the
Not all divorce is bad. Sometimes the parents’ divorce because it is what would be best for everyone else. So, before Eberstadt points the finger at all the divorced families, she needs to look at all of the sides. For instance, divorce can be helpful in some ways. If the relationship of the parents is getting to the point of abuse, it is obviously a good point to end the relationship. It would not only be a good idea for the spouses, it would also be a better situation for the children as well. You do not need to have children witnessing their parents getting hurt in any way. The argument being made is that divorce affects kids, but it can be beneficial in many ways. This is what Eberstadt fails to look at, which is a big factor when dealing with divorce. Not only does Eberstadt fail to look at this aspect, most people in general make the same assumptions. When one hears about someone getting divorced, they automatically blame the parents. The parents are not always the ones at fault. Believe it or not, there are some circumstances where it is anybody’s fault but the parents. So, Eberstadt is completely wrong in her assumption that divorce is always the parents fault and will always result in bad children that want nothing more than to rebel towards the