Stephanie Ericsson author of “The Ways We Lie” was born in 1953 and was raised in San Francisco. The essay “The Way We Lie” was first published in the Utne Reader. Her husband Jim died in 1988 and due to that she kept a journal and later turned it in to a book called “Companion Through the Darkness, Inner Dialogues on Grief”. Her other works include ShameFaced (Hazelden Publications), that is used for the last 25 years in chemical dependency treatment centers. She was also the editor of two books by Stephen Zuckerman: New Clichés for the 21st Century and Doc, What's Up? Stephanie presently lives in Saint Paul, Minnesota.…
3) nature of the deception where there is an understanding that the deception could be effective…
One’s idea of self can change overtime, but the realisation of this can happen within an instant.…
Takes time and implies careful attention looking below the surface to find the motivation and context as well as what assumptions are involved and what is not there.…
What defines honesty and integrity? Is there a connection between these two words, and what does that imply? Stephen L. Carter, a law professor and writer, questions the common definitions of these words and the their moral interpretations in his essay, “The Insufficiency of Honesty”. In the essay, he makes several about the key differences between what “honesty” and “integrity” actually mean, and I agree with Carter that too often integrity is mistaken for honesty. He mentions that, “…acting in accordance with what you think is right and risking no loss in the process is a rather thin and unadmirable form of honesty”, and I concur that selfishness of that caliber lacks integrity by definition.…
Deception is one of the most debatable issues in psychological research. Research has shown that individuals who participated in deceptive versus non-deceptive found the deceptive studies more enjoyable. These individuals also found a greater sense of educational gain and did not mind their privacy invaded or experiencing deception. This research suggests that although deception is unethical on a moral basis, it is not seen that way from the view of the…
Pathological liars - or "mythomaniacs" - may be suffering from histrionic personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder. The following comments basically reflect a pathological liar who has the characteristics of histrionic personality disorder.…
The first barriers of critical thinking that is found from the start is egocentrism. Egocentrism could be defined as the tendency to see reality as centered on oneself. Egocentrics are selfish, self-absorbed people who view their interests, ideas, and values as superior to everyone else’s.…
Dispositional theory focuses on traits consistently exhibited by a subject. Traits are grouped by their centrality to the personality. Cardinal dispositions make up the vast majority of one’s personality (Feist & Feist, 2009). These are rare. Central dispositions are the five to 10 traits by which one is most easily identified (Feist & Feist, 2009). Secondary dispositions are abdundant and generally make appearances only under certain circumstances.…
“Thinking without thinking” (Gladwell, 2005) is the subconscious mind at work rapidly disseminating information and honing in on patterns that really matter to formulate a quick decision or opinion. This decision making approach is recognized as, thin-slicing where small sound bites or snippets of information is quickly assimilated and then based on, experience and expertise the sub consciousness or unconsciousness is lead to formulate opinions or draw conclusions. This is contrary to the…
When you tell something that is not the truth, something happens inside of that person,…
– Deception allows opportunities to investigate behaviors and mental processes not easily studied using nondeceptive methods.…
The Unreflective Thinker Examine my thinking to identify problems that affect my thinking. Deceiving myself about the effectiveness of my thinking…
become a reflective thinker who does not draw on simplistic explanations for the behaviour of others;…
People think that they can clear up profound matters if they consider them deeply, but they exercise perverse thoughts and come to no good because they do their reflecting with only self-interest at the center” (Yamamoto, 1). This even…