STRATEGIES FOR THE HAPPY FAMILY
As time goes by, family became more and more obvious that the family structure is indeed changing. “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”(Sokolik, 2010). Every family have their problem whether is marriage problem or children problem, they also have sadness, happiness, love, freedom and have a lot of emotions at the same time so organization a happy family is very difficult to make up. Every family member should have some good strategies to make good family including parents have a good role model and children be sensible. Firstly, all the family members must enjoy together. “The happiest monents of my life have been the few which I have passed at home in the bosom of my life” said by Thomas Jefferson, (1743). They should watch movie and sing together, or read some motivating books to give them positive view and upgrade their mind. Each family member should exchange the interesting stories together. The parents should ask their child when the child back home, whatever the stories whether they are boring or interesting. Next, parents should bring their child to go to travel once a year to fulfill the child’s desire and accumulation the family memories. Besides, the parents also can tell children about their childhood stories. Secondly, it is very important to encourage bonding between the siblings. ‘Nothing in the world could make human life happier than to greatly increase the number of strong families’ said Mace (1985). Children get along when they are younger that can promote their relationship in their future. Elder siblings must have a good model to teach and educate their younger sibling’s homework to help them get a good result. On the other hand, parents can let them play game and establish teamwork. If the siblings fight or occur some problem, parents must create compromises and talk about the family rules to them and analyze the problem to let them understand and solve it by...
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