She feel that if the bride is still living at home when she decides to marry her parents should pay, but if she is already living on her own, the couple should be responsible for the expenses. She tells all her children to make sure they are friends with their lovers because as you grow old love changes. It becomes more of a mutual respect for one another and you can't fully respect someone unless you like them and are friends with them. She also expressed to her children that she expects them to give her plenty of grand-children.
I told both women that "children are keen observers of their parents' marriages" (Seigel 2). When you are not noticing children are sense happiness and hostility between people and draw their own conclusions of the situation. "These conclusions will become a permanent part of their beliefs and expectations, and will prepare them to form their own marital relationships when they are older" (2). I then asked them if they thought they set a good example for their children through their own actions. They both answered with a definite yes. There was no doubt in their