Using a different approach like teaching instead of hitting will better a child’s life. To add it is safer than what could possibly happen if a child is hit. In an article written it said: “It is trying. Kids will push every one of your buttons on a daily basis. But let's not resort to spanking. Let's teach” (Hughes). The quote is saying that kids will get on their parents last nerve all the time. There is an alternative way to discipline children, such as explaining to kids where they went wrong which is in place of spanking. If a parent was to teach their kids it would put a child out of harm's way. And it would be even better for the adult since they wouldn’t have to use aggression to get their point across. Not to mention, teaching is a way for kids to grow. An activist for this idea said, “But what does this pain teach the child? It teaches him or her to not do something. It tells the child nothing about what to do. This means the child might well find something as bad or worse to do” (Spanking Is Passe”). What the quote is trying to explain is that hitting or spanking does not teach children right from wrong. It ends up just turning into a negative and children will continue what they’re doing or find something worse to do, because they are not learning. They are learning that hitting is acceptable and not being taught or talked to in the proper way. Actually teaching kids and explaining what is …show more content…
As abused kids grow up they develop problems. The simple solution for this is not to use violence in anyway towards kids. By using a different approach to parenting these deep problems can be completely avoided. In the book “Child Abuse” it stated, “One of the basic factors in the etiology of child abuse draws unanimity: abusing parents were themselves abused or neglected physically or emotionally as children” (Child Abuse 15). The quote is explaining that kids that were abused physically or emotionally as children are the parents that are most likely to abuse their own kids. If a child is not hurt physically they will grow up in a more positive way. They also will not cause harm to their children like their parents did to them, ending the vicious cycle. Furthermore, mothers that were abused as kids often abuse their children. Bryan Grapes stated,“A study by Byron Egeland provides further support to this hypothesis. Egeland interviewed 47 mothers who were abused as children and found that 40 percent were currently mistreating their own children” (Children Abuse 20). This quote is explaining Byron Egeland’s study. He got to talk to 47 mothers that were abused as children, and what he found out was shocking. Currently 40 percent of the women he interviewed were mistreating their own kids in someway. Since these women were hit, spanked, or treated even