Social Expectations Of Honduran And Puerto Rican

Growing up as a Hispanic female, I faced many expectations that would attempt to demean what is to be unique and instead portray oneself in a specific light. In many Latin countries women are glamorized for looking as naturally beautiful as possible when presenting themselves. Try to imagine having an entire lifetime inspected through a magnifying glass. Though, I have never been one to conform to these societal expectations. At first glance many people have a hard time attempting to place an ethnicity. Being as I am a mix of Honduran and Puerto Rican; which are two very cultural expressive countries. Born a brunette with piercing dark brown eyes and naturally tan skin, I was easy to place in this category. From an early age these beliefs were spoon fed no matter where I found myself. Making sure to look pleasant no matter where the destination became a nuisance and unbelievably difficult along the years. Entering high school gave me a chance to confront the belief that all Hispanic women were to be perfectly polished and even sexy per say.
Going from a brunette to a blonde then finally dying my hair silver was quite the transformation. Being at school and experiencing a handful of different reactions was without a doubt foreseen. Grasping that my culture frowned upon this new look brought a dimmer to the decision. However, the acceptance from my peers and teachers was incomprehensible. My choice was admired and showcased a new perspective of what it meant to thrive in what one believes is intended for