Sex Education in Schools
In a perfect world, teens and pre-teens would wait until marriage before having sex. In a perfect world, we would not be bombarded with sexual images and icons. Obviously we do not live in a perfect world, and currently the average age for teenagers to engage in sex is fifteen. This clearly proves that abstinence only education in schools is simply un realistic. We can no longer delude ourselves into thinking that ‘just say no’ is an effective method of halting sexual activity among teens. Abstinence only education promotes sexual abstinence until marriage and either completely avoids any discussion about the use of contraceptives, or only reveals failure rates associated with such use. While abstinence is the only sure way to avoid pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, we have to be realistic. Teenagers are not going to stop having sex, and why should they stop when it is projected at them from every angle and made to believe it’s the best way to be affectionate? If teenagers will not stop having sex, isn’t it better that they be educated about safe practice rather than be left in the dark, which may put them at risk should they decide to have sex? "At a certain point, it becomes really hard to change basic human behaviors," said John Santelli, who studies teenagers at Columbia University. "I think what we're seeing is the limits of the emphasis on abstinence as the primary message." It is important not to delay providing information for teenagers but to begin when they are young. Providing basic information provides the foundation on which more complex knowledge is built up over time. This also means that sex education has to be sustained. For example, when they are very young, children can be informed about how people grow and change over time, and how babies become children and then adults, and this provides the basis on which they understand more detailed information about puberty provided in the pre-teenage...
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