Persuasive Letter To Tarot
RAVEN'S READING RAINBOW: YOU KEEP ME HANGIN' ON...
"You claim you still care for me but your heart and soul needs to be free
And now that you've got your freedom you wanna still hold on to me
You don't want me for yourself so let me find somebody else--"
-The Supremes / Holland, Dozier, Holland
It's called "stringing you along". It's being in that extremely uncomfortable, pseudo-romantic situation that leaves you constantly feeling as if your relationship is built on sand, not sound and stable rock. You hang on for dear life, desperate for any sign that your partner really cares, and he doles them out and snatches them back just when you're starting to relax, thinking everything will be alright between you. You may want to leave, but you've …show more content…
However, the Tarot can give you some things to consider that might make it easier for you to focus on what the healthiest solution for you might be. To that end, I tweaked a three card spread to help provide the answer to your question.
Let's see what the Tarot has to say, shall we?
Card 1. You in the situation: This card describes how your current situation affects you, your feelings, your perceptions, and how you handle the energy of it.
5 of Pentacles, reversed. It's never enough. There's always something lacking. Learning to ask for what you need.
When the 5 of Pentacles, reversed comes up in a romance spread, you can bet that there's a sense of never getting enough attention, never getting enough time, never feeling enough love in a relationship. Reassurances ring hollow, and nothing he says brings the comfort you seek. You ask him to be more giving, and you either get excuses, or meaningless platitudes. On the other hand, you may relentlessly focus on what you have with your partner, in an effort to make it all seem worthwhile. Neither situation helps your feet of insecurity. Listen to what he's actually saying, and make your decisions based on …show more content…
Very frustrating. And infuriating. Meanwhile, you keep waiting. And waiting.
It may be necessary for you to break out of this rut by voicing your concerns and hold his feet to the fire until you get a yay or nay! You have to do something to break the holding pattern you're in. Otherwise, your relationship could be in this state of limbo forever!
Card 3. Outcome/ answer to your question: King of Cups, reversed. Workaholic / Playaholic. Not the most grounded person on the planet. Afraid of commitment. Tells you what you want to hear to avoid conflict. Overly sensitive, except when it comes to your needs. If describing a person, either a person of color or someone with brown to sandy colored hair, hazel or blue eyes. These folks often have had issues with moderation. A tendency to be inconsistent. Says one thing, does another.
Anon-- my heart goes out to you, because you're dealing with one of those guys who really, really doesn't want to make a commitment to anyone at this time. So, you have a decision to make. You can live with the status quo, or you can decide to find a partner who wants to build a life together with
"You claim you still care for me but your heart and soul needs to be free
And now that you've got your freedom you wanna still hold on to me
You don't want me for yourself so let me find somebody else--"
-The Supremes / Holland, Dozier, Holland
It's called "stringing you along". It's being in that extremely uncomfortable, pseudo-romantic situation that leaves you constantly feeling as if your relationship is built on sand, not sound and stable rock. You hang on for dear life, desperate for any sign that your partner really cares, and he doles them out and snatches them back just when you're starting to relax, thinking everything will be alright between you. You may want to leave, but you've …show more content…
However, the Tarot can give you some things to consider that might make it easier for you to focus on what the healthiest solution for you might be. To that end, I tweaked a three card spread to help provide the answer to your question.
Let's see what the Tarot has to say, shall we?
Card 1. You in the situation: This card describes how your current situation affects you, your feelings, your perceptions, and how you handle the energy of it.
5 of Pentacles, reversed. It's never enough. There's always something lacking. Learning to ask for what you need.
When the 5 of Pentacles, reversed comes up in a romance spread, you can bet that there's a sense of never getting enough attention, never getting enough time, never feeling enough love in a relationship. Reassurances ring hollow, and nothing he says brings the comfort you seek. You ask him to be more giving, and you either get excuses, or meaningless platitudes. On the other hand, you may relentlessly focus on what you have with your partner, in an effort to make it all seem worthwhile. Neither situation helps your feet of insecurity. Listen to what he's actually saying, and make your decisions based on …show more content…
Very frustrating. And infuriating. Meanwhile, you keep waiting. And waiting.
It may be necessary for you to break out of this rut by voicing your concerns and hold his feet to the fire until you get a yay or nay! You have to do something to break the holding pattern you're in. Otherwise, your relationship could be in this state of limbo forever!
Card 3. Outcome/ answer to your question: King of Cups, reversed. Workaholic / Playaholic. Not the most grounded person on the planet. Afraid of commitment. Tells you what you want to hear to avoid conflict. Overly sensitive, except when it comes to your needs. If describing a person, either a person of color or someone with brown to sandy colored hair, hazel or blue eyes. These folks often have had issues with moderation. A tendency to be inconsistent. Says one thing, does another.
Anon-- my heart goes out to you, because you're dealing with one of those guys who really, really doesn't want to make a commitment to anyone at this time. So, you have a decision to make. You can live with the status quo, or you can decide to find a partner who wants to build a life together with