I cannot say that my family has a vast American history of a 100+ years, but what I can say is that my family has grown a lot in the past 30+ years. We would not have migrated to the USA if it weren't for my aunt’s marriage. It was 1984 when the first member of my family, my aunt, came to the United States of America. From then on, the rest of my immediate family trickled into the United States of America, looking for a place to grow and expand their family lines. It wasn’t easy to get a stable household income and care for our family at the time, but paycheck to paycheck we managed to do it.…
The american dream is what all young people hope to obtain later in their life after college. Although the American dream is a wonderful life to have, I don’t want just the idea of living an average lifestyle that every person purses. I rather be more than average and live a life that is overly favored and blessed by God.…
This connection that I have with my mother is a dime a dozen if you look at our entirely culture here in America. Less and less families these days actually cook or sit down to eat a meal together which has left many Americans searching for something they have lost. This lost feeling is being capitalized on by television networks by the vast amount of cooking and food related shows that are being broadcasted. Frank Bruni asks in “An Experts Theory of Food Television Appeal”, “For these young people, does the televised cooking have have the appeal of a missive from a lost utopia” (Bruni 111)? I believe he hit the proverbial nail right on the head with this line of questioning and he couldn't be more correct. Young adults who lead busy lives,…
Since I grew up in a family with an abusive father, my response to conflict differs from most people. My father resolved conflict by shouting, degrading, and often physically abusing the other person. My mother’s response to conflict was to try to settle a compromise or walk away until her own frustration was no longer there. I think based off the conflict responses I observed growing up, my responses are a mixture of my parents. When in an intense argument with someone, I attack their character and then silence them out. Family members play a big part in how we resolve conflicts, because a good portion of our lives begin by us spending time with and watching our relatives. We, as a society, adapt skills and mannerisms from those closest to…
Before i had a family, i dreamed of my "made up family", having a joyous time. Well that sure made me understand perception can alter your true life experiences when you go thru real situations. My point being, it was June of 2015 last year, and my small family and my mother planned to take a trip. My mother resides in New Mexico and we live in Las Vegas, so the demand for togetherness was of a longing feeling. One could say even mutual. When all the plans went thru we were on our way to Las Cruces,N.M. We were initially going to pick up my baby daughter. She had been with my mother for a few months and daddy was missing her. At this time i had'nt seen my family in 16 years and they were interested in meeting my wife and kids for the first…
At around 10 years of age my family and I were coming out of a store when we heard an individual yell out, “Go back to Mexico, America houses no aliens!” At that moment, I felt as if this wouldn’t be the last time I would hear these words echo through my life, and I was right.…
I lived in Hollywood, FL for nine years to long. It was circumstantial how I wound up there. It was not a pleasant experience. I went to Florida niave. I thought that the blacks from different parts of the world got along. I was in for a rude awakening. My family goes back to be an American every since colonization. I felt like an outsider in America an I’m a veteran. I experienced prejudice and stereo typing from both the men an the women. I t would pain me to see how other black Americans were treated. Most of the black americans families migrated from Mississippi, Alabama and the Carolins. The majority of the Islanders lived in their own commities like Mirramor, Little Hatti and…
Based on the first day, I loved it and don’t want to go back to the United States for a while. There were prestigious architectures, exciting activities, and many unusual animals. Growing up in India wouldn't be the worst possible life and I wouldn't run out of activities to do for sure. Although, poverty is a big issue nationwide and needs to be brought to the government's attention. Many families are walking the streets, asking other people for money to buy clothes, a house, and provide a life for their children. After the first day life is surely not the same in India as it is in the United States. Some girls in India aren’t thoroughly educated, females aren’t treated the same as males, a caste system is still existing in certain areas,…
In my American Dream I wanted to be an Orthodontist. To achieve this goal I wanted to attend the University of Memphis. For the first four years to obtain my bachelor’s degree. Then I will go to The University of Tennessee College of Dentistry for four years for dental schooling, and another two years for a post doctoral program for the study of Orthodontics. To do all of this I will have to do more than what I do to get through high school.…
"Hard work, honesty, risk, and competition all must happen for the American Dream of wealth, marriage and family, home and prosperity, and social mobility to become reality." This is what we as Americans have ingrained in our heads as how to become happy. The American Dream is not a set rule of guidelines that guarantees success when attempted. It is not 2+2=4. There are numerous books in the world today "spilling the secret to success". They are however just a regurgitation of how one person became successful. To truly become successful, one needs the true American Dream, not some sweeping generalization that seems to have filled everyones minds. The True American Dream is much more simple, and still, does not have a guaranteed product…
From an early age, I admired The Cosby show because it was the first show that I saw on television that reminded me of my family. At the age of ten, what I once knew as the a strong black family was torn through the finalization of my parent's divorce One time when I persisted through a challenge and what encouraged or motivated you to carry on was when my mother got a divorce. When my mother and my father had divorced I had felt like the end of me. It felt like I would never have the perfect family or the perfect life that I had dreamed of. I felt lost and alone. My mother was strong for the both of us. She comforted me when I was sad or felt like I couldn't continue with life. She is the best mother I could ever ask for. My mother taught…
In the month of May, 2008, the term rock-bottom took on an entirely different meaning for me in my life.…
Ever since I was a kid I believed that nothing could harm our country, and I knew even then that all though we were all different we represented something bigger than ourselves or our cultural backgrounds; we represented what I call the American Family! We are so busy fighting each other that we are neglecting to see the true enimies closing in! Even if know one reads this or likes it, I will continue to fight for this country because that's all I know how to do. May the Lord watch over and guide me and my American…
Recently, I met little Ricky in my newborn photographer studio. He's the newest addition to Lauren and Ricardo's family. I met this family when they came in two years ago for their second child's newborn shots. It's always such a priviledge when parents return with their newest additions. Ricky was 8 days new when he was brought into the studio.…
I was at my new school, sitting in my fourth grade classroom, filled with buoyant children and buzzing with the energetic noise of their talking. I could hear all of the voices of those at my table clearly. I could see their lips moving along to the sound of their voice, forming words. However, I could not understand what they were saying to me. At that moment I felt like I was watching a movie on mute. As much as my classmates attempted to make me a part of their group, I was still a spectator among them.…