How do you want your child to turn out? What type of adult will he or she be? Well, parents play a vital part in determining what type of people their children group up to be, based on how they raise them. According to researchers the parenting styles that a mother or father use will help determine their child’s current and future behavior. In this paper the researcher will examine the following: different styles of parenting, how the styles affect the behavior of children and if one style is more effective than another.
Does the Method Really Matter?
It has been determined that parenting styles can greatly affect a child’s development (Feldman, 2008). Although, the way that a parent raises their child is not the sole determining factor in molding behavior; peers and family members also influence their behavior. If parents utilize the most effective method in child rearing, this may contribute to the child being independent, friendly and practicing self control. If the most effective child rearing method is not used, this could lead to undesirable characteristics such as; emotional problems, low self-esteem and a lack of self control (Feldman 2008). There are four different parenting styles and each style influences a child’s behavior in one way or another. The first style to be discussed is the authoritarian parents. These parents are domineering, unaffectionate, and very strict. In short, these parents do not tolerate disobedience. Second is the permissive parents, they are the opposite of the authoritarian parent. The parents that are permissive will allow their child to have his or her way. This parent does not put many demands or restriction on how the child should behave; neither do they take responsibility for the child’s actions (200) Third is the authoritative parents, although, strict they are nurturing. In contrast to the other styles, authoritative parents are able to demonstrate consistency when...
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Parenting Style (2008) Retrieved on November 20, 2008 from http://pediatrics.about.com/od/infantparentingtips/a/04_pntg_styles.htm
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