Parent and Teen Decision

During the growth process, teenager is an important stage. It is time when children take shape in both biology and psychology. Teenagers want to affirm their own personalities; some people think that parents or adult relatives should make important decisions for teenagers. However, I definitely disagree with that statement. In my opinion, parents or relatives adult should assist teenagers instead of making important decisions for them. This allows teenagers to learn about responsibility, independence, and personal development.
Firstly, when teenagers make their own decisions, they will learn about responsibilities for the corollary to their decisions. In my experience, when I graduated from high school, my parents let me choose the university that I would study. It was a crucial decisions because it would change whole my life. I had to choose a university that suit to my study's ability. My parents were always next to me and they supported me a lot. It was a difficult time to me. I wondered why my parents didn't choose for me. But now, I have understood that no one can help you make your decisions except you. I learn about responsibilities for my decisions. Although I have some problem with my current university, I feel very happy because my decision is right.
Secondly, when my parents let me make my own decisions, I become more independent and confident. I realize that my parents will not always be next to me all the time. Someday, they will leave me forever. My parents have taught me about independence when I learn the way to make important decisions. If you make a important decision for you, you can make more important decisions. When I went to university, I decided to study Business Administration by myself. Those decisions not only make me feel more independent and confident a lot, but I also have independent personality.
To sum up, from my experience, I totally disagree when parents and adults relatives make important decisions for teenagers. This will