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Overcoming Obstacles In Life
Overcoming Difficult Obstacles in Life
There comes a point in everyones life where they must overcome something difficult. Whether that difficult thing may be passing a test, a family issue, or even beating a team in a sporting event, there is one or multiple obstacles people overcome in various ways. The most difficult thing that Ive overcame in my life would definitely be when my grandpa passed away.
This was the most difficult thing I had to overcome and accept in my life because I was really close with my grandpa and it took me time to accept that he was gone but I did and I just chose to remember him for the man he was which was the greatest person you could get to know. He was the father figure in my life and I went to him for everything.
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Throughout this difficult time the one I was strongly surprised from was my grandma. She taught me through this completely hard time that we cant show weakness. She was strong throughout this whole journey with my grandfather disregarding the fact that she herself didn't have a whole lot of time to let his medical conditions sink in.
April 30, 2016 I went to go visit my grandpa in the Fresno hospital. While I was there i overheard the doctors talking to grandma and giving her an update of how my grandpa was doing. They were letting her know that he was doing much better and he was finally eating and responding well to his medications and Chemo. While I was talking to him it felt like nothing changed, he was the same person he was two months ago. His personality was still sarcastic yet funny and he still wanted to argue with me about the intelligence level of the Golden State
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I couldn't bare the thought of carrying on with my life without the one of few people who motivated me to do my best everyday in school and in sports. When I went to my grandparents house later on that day it started to sink in. As the days went on I questioned whether I could ever overcome this. After his funeral happened I started to slowly accept that he was gone. Then two weeks after we buried him I accepted that he had past away and that I have to keep going on with my life and instead of dwelling on what happened I needed to get back on track and accomplish what he knew I could

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