The Dirty Deeds of Motherhood
No woman is required to build the world by destroying herself. ~Rabbi Sofer
The famous reporter and feminist Betty Rollin wrote an Essay for Look magazine called “Motherhood Who Needs It?” it reflects on how motherhood is just a myth, and women don’t need to have children it’s a choice. Throughout the essay Rollin explains how a woman needing to have babies is something that is a psychological choice not biological. The author gives data from university studies explaining that women have the decision if they want to have children, and that if they choose not too then that’s fine as well. “What an expert cast of hundreds is telling us is, simply, that biological possibility and desire are not the same as biological need”, (146).
Rollin goes to give personal accounts on how women have been pressured to conceive and with that, came hardship that caused women to drift into a depressed state of mind. The author explains that women need to take care of themselves before they venture off into a world that demands women become mothers. Ultimately Rollin gives alternatives to the situation saying that instead of having more children why not worry about the ones at hand, these statements I must say is nothing but the truth, to disagree with Rollin would be saying that one “has” to jump off the cliff with the rest of the gang. Rollin gives strong arguments throughout her essay, first by saying women are not putting in more “me” time, next she uses societies real view on motherhood, and finally she shows new ways to help the problem at hand. Now even though her essay is valid that does not mean some ideas are not put into question.
Rollin states that women are held back in their lives when having children, and this is true. For many years we have had the idea that we as women need to have children or we are not complete as humans. The author dishes out hard cold facts that we can still be true women by not having babies. In fact by not...
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