The first chapter of the book introduced me to the “Matthew Effect.” This effect is a phenomenon …show more content…
My older sisters and I started to play musical instruments when we turned five. Every Friday night, we would have our little concert at home with my parents as the audience. My family really loved the idea of the concert because it gathered us to spend quality family time together. However, I always liked spending time with my family, but I never liked the idea of performing music with my sisters at all. At that time, my sisters had been playing piano and violin for at least five years, but I had only been playing the instruments for a year. Because I was the last person to start learning how to play musical instruments, my skills were not as good as my sisters. Every time when we rehearse together, my sisters would always get mad at me for not playing perfectly. My sisters’ ability to play instruments is what sociologists called “accumulative advantage”(30). They did not realize that they had been playing instrument at least two years before I have started, and of course, they had been practicing more than I had been. My sisters’ anger made me not want to practice; my lack of improvement made me not want to play instrument at all. My sisters practiced music to for competitions, but I just wanted to play for fun. All of my teachers said I was the most talented in the house, but because my lack of improvement, no one believed in my …show more content…
When I was going to my first year of elementary school in Thailand, the school was not going to accept me because I was not completely six years old. The cut off was on September, but I was born in October. Yet, my mother did not want me to repeat a grade because it was a waste of time. My mom thought it was going to be okay, it actually had a huge effect on my life. I was always the youngest in the school class. When I was twelve, my parents transferred me to high school preparatory academy. They were hoping that I would be able to get into a top high school in Thailand. However, they did not think about I would I feel to be in the completely new environment. All of the classes were higher than regular middle school classes. Since the first semester that I transferred to the academy, I was behind in all of the classes because I came from regular school. Most of the students were studying at the academy since elementary school, and they were used to the higher level of classes. My teacher called me into her office and said that I should not be in this school because this school is for talented people. However, my teacher forgot the fact that my classmate has been train for school for so long. The accumulative advantage made depressed because I could not keep up in classes like other people. Since that day, I realized that I had to work harder than other people. Finally, I could keep up with other