Should men be allowed to have more than 1 wife?
Polygamy is a very controlling, as well as abusive relationship that children should not be brought up in. Polygamy is very likely to be a discriminative relationship where one person in the relationship (almost always the man) dominates over the other members (almost always the women). This may sound very open, as well as tolerant, to think all members of a polygamous marriage would be 100% willing and not at all disadvantaged, but that’s pretty much ignoring that the history of polygamy is tied fairly directly into the forced control of women. There are some men who absolutely love the control. I believe that is the whole reason behind wanting to be in a polygamist relationship. This kind of relationship is usually practiced in the Mormon religion in other countries, but it is becoming more common in the US. Once I am married, it is a done deal and there is no turning back. Once I give my life to someone, it will be final. Both the man and the woman should treat each other equally, and neither of them should be able to control one more than the other. If polygamy was to be made legal, it could lead to the structures of family and society being completely rearranged. Anyone who thinks that realignment wouldn’t favor men (even in our happy, open society) is forgetting basic biology. A man can father many children, and so would have use for many wives. A woman can only have one child at a time, and thus needs only one husband. In a polygamous culture, it is the men who have the power. I am sure there are a few good polygamous relationships out there where everyone involved is loved and treated as an equal. But that is simply not the natural state of polygamy, and those rare examples are no reason for us to even consider legalizing the act. I realize there are a few things that may need to be spoken upon, because there are other types of marriage. I do believe is ok, for...
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