Managing Relationships Paper
Relationships are defined as a connection you establish when you communicate with another person. Every time you engage in interpersonal communication, you are in a relationship but it is only through ongoing recurring interactions that you develop interpersonal relationship. We all have had several relationships throughout our lifetimes and unfortunately some have left but other have stayed and had a lasting impression on our lives.
Personally I have had all types of relationships throughout my life. Some have been friends and some have even been intimate. As we progress through these relationships we experience what researchers call relational development which is the movement of a relationship from one stage to another and the direction is either towards or away from intimacy. Proximity increases the communication opportunities between two individuals and this is the one factor that lead to our initial short term attraction because the more she came around we had a chance to talk about each other’s likes and dislikes we talked on the phone, went on dates and spent more time together despite the disapproval of friends and over time we developed a relationship that we were able to build upon for the years to come.
On the other hand the long term attraction is associated with the liking of positive feelings that makes us continue and escalate a relationship into something more. To me this is what I like to call the “I love you” part of the relationship. The relationship that I would like to use for this assignment involves my husband and I. We have been married for over four years and we have been together for a total of six years. I met my husband while I was at work at the time I was a bus rider. I was at a school and he stop me and ask me for my number which I did. So when he calls me I asked him for his name and the rest well is history. Our...
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