Love Marriage Vs. Arrange Marriage
Fawn Weaver, writer of the New York Times bestselling author in 2010 “The Happy Wives Club” said, “The greatest marriages are built on teamwork. A mutual respect, a healthy dose of admiration, and a never-ending portion of love and grace.” These points could be considered part of a strong and long last love marriage. However, nowadays it is so difficult to maintain a successful union, but according to my research from the book ‘Marital Counseling’ by Hirsch Lazzar, many social scientist in America believe that love marriage will succeed not just because it is relevant for the society but also because spouses will fulfill their most basic wishes, such as constitute a family or sharing life together. In the following paragraphs, it will be explained three different reasons why love marriage is the only way to build a strong, long and prosperous relationship including overcoming differences, maintaining commitment and increasing positive psychological and mental health. The first reason about love marriage is willing to overcoming differences. Inevitably, matrimony could have different customs, religions or habits. However, when the love exists in a couple they are disposed to tolerate and respect others personalities. Furthermore, when both have different patterns of living together, they may have problems but having effective communications skills, they will come to a peaceful term. For example, one of them go to their parents to have dinner every Sunday and the other go to Church at night, they can reach an agreement to satisfy both customs. As a second aspect and based on the article “Marriage, What’s It” by Belinda Luscome , having an economic stability helps to surpass marital problems, as a good example is going to a romantic trip on the beach as a honey moon to spend time together forgetting problems and reinforce their unity as a couple. Finally, as the book “Marital Counseling” has shown love marriage is...
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